Wk 5 Blog conflict resolution skills

Blog Wk 5

Conflict Resolution

            I had conflict on my job about a week ago with a bus driver. I was walking to put my children on the bus and he stopped me at the door. He told me that I need to make sure that I know where my children are going before I put them on the bus. So I could not say anything because he caught me off guard while I had my children. I told him that I just do what the parents tell me what to do and I do not have anything to do with that. It upset me so bad that I had to tell my boss about and she told me not to worry about it that she will take care of it. A strategy that I can learn from is how to use your tone of voice when you are talking to somebody. I would just stay calms when somebody is very rude to me. I would have asked them to contact the parents about the children. I would make sure they hear both side of the situation before they make a decision. Yes, I can use the 3 R’s because he needs people to respect our thoughts and viewpoints it can help resolve conflict.

My Reponses Two  

http://deb-teacherspet.blogspot.com/2013/02/conflict-communic.html?showComment=1360456377685#c2558336816420748613

http://earlychildhood21stcentury.blogspot.com/2013/02/conflict-resolution.html?showComment=1360457017982#c726662145973585579

Wk 4 Blog Evaluated

Evaluated

While I was assess myself I learned a lot about myself on communication that I need to improve on. I need to work on how to speak in public with people.  What special me about my  cousin and co worker both assess me on how I engage in verbal aggressiveness and I score 20-35 and I thought that was good on that part because they both know me very well. Also both of my evaluated notice my weakness in the same area that I notices them. I am a trustworth person to people, building relationship, and that do sometime have something to do with my choice I make with people. We need to make sure we speak right in front of children when we are in the school setting. We need to make sure clear understanding with parents about their children to let the make the best choice for their children. As a teacher children depend on us like their parents.

My response to two people:

 http://deb-teacherspet.blogspot.com/2013/01/evaluations.html#comment-form

http://sheilarlee.blogspot.com/2013/02/blog-operation-communicationevaluation.html?showComment=1359928091115#c6518954371551914660 

week 3 blog Cultural Diversity

Cultural Diversity

 I really do think that I am different from some individual of other culture because when I call customer service at Verizon for help with my phone. I get a person have a different cultural from mind. I do not understand what they be saying to me so I asks them can they put somebody on that I can understand and be nice and put somebody on. Ways I can communicate with any other group would be to try to speak their language if I could speak their language  talk for they can understand what I am saying to them. The three strategy I would use to help myself communicate effectively with people or group. One I would be respect to my to children parents at my work place to make sure we have good understanding of what going on with their children. I will make sure I put in term that they can understands. The second one is to  make sure that you be aware of any hand gestures and body language they use when dealing with different cultural. Last but not less, I would make sure I watch what I say around different cultural.

Week 2 Blog assinment 2: Nonverbal Communication Video

Nonverbal Communication

The assignment for this week I had to fine a video on a nonverbal communication. I watched a video on Guys Vs Girls on the way they communication with each other. It is a video that I have not seen before and I turn the video sound off and this what I saw. It started out like they were coming out of the movie laughing and touching each others. It look like the other couple on the right side was  laughing and having a good time. But it look like something make the girl mad because she had a frown on her face when they was going to the car. After they got in the car she was talking to him with a mad express on her face and he was listening to what she was saying. Then he started talking back to her with a frustration on his face.

When I turn the video  sound on I saw that they was a couple. She got mad at him because he did not pay attend to her when she asked if anybody want some freeze yogurt and he did not say nothing. So they was into it with each out about that. He had a difference language tone when he was talking to her later on in the video about do you want to go and get some freeze yogurt now and she said no. I think my assumptions would have been different because I did not know nothing about this video but on other movies I would have know about the video. I have learned a lot from communication this weeks about how body language and facial express is a form of communication. It have learned me to be care about my facial express that I do.

Reference:

Guys Vs Girls: Communication. Video posted to http://www.you

tube.com/watch?v=fAx2mupAK8Q&feature=endscreen

Guys Vs Girls: Communication

Week 1: Blog Communication

A good communication and a communicator would be my mother and cousin. Me, my mother, and cousin talk all the time about different situation that goes on in our life this day and time. I like the ways they listen to me when I am going through something. I like how we sit down and discussion difference problems we have. My cousin is just my counselor so I do not need to pay anybody. She said that she thinking about going back to school to get her counselor degree to be a counselor. I told her I will be her first patient. She do not tell me what to do she just give me advice on the situation. She always tells me positive information on how to handle situation. I would want to module some of my communication behavior by helping people that are in need of help and advice if they need my help. She is respectful just like I am so that why I model her.    

Communicating and Collaborating in the Early Childhood Field

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Educ 6164 Week 8 Professional Hopes and Goals

Blog: Professional Hopes and Goals
Within the past eight weeks I have learned a lot form this course about diversity, culture, and language. My hope when working with children and families I would make sure that I understand their culture for they want be out of places. I will make sure I learn their culture before they come. I will make sure that get the help they need to understand my culture and their culture.

One of my goals is the make sure that we understand the issue of prejudice, social justice, and equity. I would like to learn more about the difference issue until I started this class. I wish that we would have more issue discussion in the society today than we do because I did not think of it like that.

I would like to think my classmate for their discussion in this class for helping me understand anti-bias. I really enjoyed reading the class post on some of the topics we discussion as a group. I see that we had all kinds of situation that we went through in our live that we had to deal with.